tarynitup

An anxious attachment meets a fearful avoidant.

My unhealthy relationship with my dad being the cause of my anxious attachment… he was only around for short periods of time so I mimicked that anxious love into adult relationships until i started therapy and admitting my relationship with my dad was unhealthy, not just hurtful.

An avoidant could have an unhealthy relationship because they were given too much responsibility to be emotional support too young, which would make anyone want to avoid a lot of emotion.. as an adult though, everyone wants to be loved.

Sometimes we just don’t know how to let someone love us.

The best thing you can want for someone is for them to heal the deepest wounds in their heart because it means they’ll become the best version of themselves.

We’re all fucked up in some way. It’s much easier to just be open about it.