tarynitup

You know that feeling where you feel “good” and you’re just like, F&CK yea! I don’t need you, I don’t need this, I’m worth that… etc. That’s usually when the universe kicks. my. ass. I’m going to forget that all of my intuitions tell me I’m going to end up face-to-fucking-face with him. I’m going… Continue reading

When we were kids, our opinions (mostly) were encouraged. “Opinions aren’t wrong, because they’re opinions.” When did we stop teaching this… when did we stop making this an important topic to talk about? We are all so focused on right vs. wrong that we can’t see that some situations aren’t right OR wrong, they just… Continue reading

had you told me that things would get so heavy that i’d be booking a 7:15 am flight on a saturday morning to SANTA ANA, CALIFORNIA 3 weeks ago…well I would have believed it. but damn, getting there at 5:30 was ROUUUUUGH. and i had the aisle. ugh. better than the middle. there it was.… Continue reading

“When we were 6, and Dad asked you in front of Mom ‘do you want this divorce?’- that was an unfair thing to do to you. When we said ‘No’, and it was the truth, that’s okay. It’s okay because we were 6 and we didn’t know. When we said no, and it hurt Mom,… Continue reading

standing in the cold water of Newport Beach… with the waves coming at me from the front, which is to be expected… and then I noticed they were coming at me from the sides, too. I could either stare and wonder how cold the water was going to be and wonder how much deeper in… Continue reading